I see that many Australians are coming to New Zealand to take advantage of our new laws legalizing same sex marriage. We welcome them. That we are not welcome in Australia to the point where NZers receive the same benefits of living there that other immigrant groups receive is beside the point. That NZ gives Australians living in NZ the benefits of being a NZer is beside the point. That we are generous to our Australian friends is taken as a right. BUT----please Australia, treat us with the same respect. You can still make your sheep jokes---OK!